Having a crush on someone? Move on.

Inspired after reading Ruskin Bond on Times of India blog, I decided to revive my blog writing frequency. My blog has not been very active, thanks to laziness on my part and hectic work schedule. Today, while I write this post, I still need to deliver a write-up in few hours.

We all have had a crush on someone at some point in our lives. It usually starts when you are about to enter teenage, and continues till you are alive! I am only 32, and still single, so having a crush is not an issue within the scope of today’s Indian society that embraces modernity while flaunting shades of orthodox values at some intervals. Having a crush on a guy is still not something to be easily bragged about in India. I cannot remember a time when I had the guts to tell the guys I had a crush on, that I liked them. However, with time I gathered courage, and spoke up in a couple of cases. Unfortunately they declined. Declined me an entry into their lives, and even reacted in such a manner that surprised me. I never expected a handsome – a so called friend to get furious and shout at me when I told him that I had feelings for him. However, unlike bollywood romantic storytales, life gives you realistic experiences. You would say why am I writing this post? Well this one is for all those who have failed in love, and are unable to get out of the thinking trap.

My first episode of rejection initiated over an online chat system, it was probably google talk. I was in a hurry to express myself, and the guy would not agree to meet me in person. He was one of my good friends, and we are still friends. I decided to tell him over the chat, and his reaction was abrupt. He got furious, and instead of explaining the fact that he was already seeing someone, he shouted at me. I was totally dejected, not because he was not interested, but for his behavior. Time is a great healer, and eventually I got over it. His wedding announcement followed days after.

The next episode involved another not so close friend, whom I happened to meet at hobby class. This time I did the mistake of telling him too early that I had a crush on him. He politely said sorry. However, as we continued to meet almost daily, and after an exhaustive research on his online profile, I did figure out that he was single. A new hope emerged, and I decided to take on the challenge. After a gap of two months after my initial confession of crush, I again told him that I liked him. His reaction was abrupt and he never let me complete what I wanted to say. It was a phase of confusion and dejection. I decided to cement our friendship first, and then take up the matter later. After another 8 weeks, I accidentally sent him a romantic emoticon. The reaction was harsher. He blocked me on Facebook, and the new messaging app – Whatsapp. Life again became painful. However, life goes on, and I decided to wait for that one guy who can handle and appreciate me. One guy who will be able to see the kid in me, and be a part of my stupidity. The wait is on.

If you have a crush on someone, and you are rejected, please move on. Yes, move on. It may seem an uphill task initially, but eventually, you will find someone who truly values you. Do not be a part of a damaging relationship where you are not respected, loved and appreciated by your partner.


Behakti ye nazar – Hindi Poem On Love

बहकती ये नज़र अब किसे बह्काएगी
तेरी याद की ये तड़प अब और कितना तडपाएगी
तेरे लब पर खिलती हुई जब एक हंसी आयेगी
प्या बताऊँ देख के तुझे ज़ालिम जान ये मेरी जाएगी
बादलों से तेज़ बरसात होगी
जब अपनी मीठी मुलाकात होगी
इस तड़पते दिल को जोर से तब धडकाएगी
जब सब तूफ़ान को चीर कर पास तू मेरे आयेगी

How to read:
Bahkati ye nazar ab kise bhkayengi
Teri yaad ki ye tadap ab aur kitna tadpayegi
Tere lab par khilti hue jab ek hansi aayegi
Kya btaun dekh ke tujhe jalim jaan ye meri jayegi
Badlo se tez barsaat hogi
Jab apni mithi mulakaat hogi
Es tadpte dil ko jaur se tab dhdkayegi
jab sab tufaan ko cheer kar paas tu mere aayegi

Messages for Happy Valentines Day

Here are few romantic messages for Valentine’s Day :

  • Smile says the sun, laugh says the moon. Oh my sweetheart be my valentine soon!
  • I am so intoxicated by the nectar of your eyes. Bless me by being my valentine, be mine!
  • This valentine, be mine.
  • I love you so much sweetheart, you are the gem of my heart. Be my valentine sweetheart!
  • You are as sweet as sugar and as salty as the sea. I want you to be my valentine, will you be?
  • Let the chocolate of love melt in our heart. Be my valentine oh sweetheart!
  • Let love light our hearts with bundles of joy. Be my valentine, I am a sweet boy!
  • I want you to be mine, this valentine.
  • You are as watery as chocolate and as sweet as honey. Will you be my valentine oh honey!
  • This valentine let our hearts be on a treat, will you be my valentine oh sweet!

You can read more romantic Valentine’s Day Greetings on http://forhappyvalentinesday.com.

Happy New Year Love Messages In Hindi

New Year Love Messages in Hindi :

1. Tere naino mein pyar chalakta hai..

Tere aane se yaar mehakta hai..

Salamat rahe tu dua hai humari..

Naya saal mubarak ho tumko.


2. Dil se bhi aziz ho tum..

Sabse mere kareeb ho tum..

Naya saal mubarak ho tumko..

Har kamiyabi ko chu lo tum..


3. Chaha hai tumko chaha karenge..

Puja hai tumko puja karenge..

Naya saal la de tumko sab khushiya..

Yahi dua bas hum karte rahenge..


4. Tumse milne ki hai dil mein tamanna

Tumse milne ka hai dil mein irada

Naya saal hoga khushiyo bhara

Dua karenge aisi ye hai humara wada


5. Naya saal mubarak ho apko.

Har khushi hasil ho apko.


6. Naye saal ki har dua hai humari

Salamat rahe dosti bas humari


7. Pyaar se pyaari surat hai tumhari..

Naya saal laye salamati bas tumhari…


8. Tere pyaar mein pagal hum rahenge..

Saal naya ho badhiya dua hum karenge..


9. Nav warsh ki ho tumko bahut bahut badhai..

Manao khub khushiya aur khao khub mithayi..


10. Aane wala saal laye dhero khushiyan aur kar de aapko mala maal..







I love it – Love Poem

I love it when you are so near my dear

And that too in open hair

I love it when you are dressed your best

And rest your head on my chest

I love it when you put on a cute smile

And I keep thinking how much I love you for a while

I love it when you cook best food to eat

My heart my dear races to beat

I love it when you say that you love me

Because I am what today because of thee

When you are around – Love Poem

When you are around

Time comes to a standstill

Without you around

Life seems an upside hill

When you are around

I am a partying bee

Without you around

I am a crying bee

When you are around

Life is a flowery bath

Without you around

Life is a muddy waste

When you are around

Birds sing a lovely song

Without you around

The days seem just too long

When you are around

I feel I am myself dear

Without you around

I cannot feel complete I swear

Love Is In The Air – Love Poem

Love is in the air

My baby love is in the air

I love it when you are near

Love is in the air

I and you, you and I make a great pair

Love is in the air

Our relation has all trust, passion and care

Love is in the air

I want to spend all my life with you without a second to spare

Love is in the air

I cannot live without my dear

Love is in the air

Hindi Love SMS Ideas

Here are few Hindi love SMS ideas :

हिंदी में कीजिये लव एस ऍम एस :

  • बहुत खूबसूरत हो तुम। तुम्हारी बातें, तुम्हारी आंखें, दिल तुम्हें चाहता है.
  • तुमसे मिलने को दिल बेक़रार है , जल्दी आजाओ जानम मौसम में बहार है .
  • तुझसे मिलते मिलते अब तुझसे मिलने की आदत सी हो गयी है . क्या कहें लगता है मोहब्बत सी हो गयी है .
  • तुम्हारी आंखें, तुम्हारी बातें, घनेरी जुल्फें, सबने मिलकर दिल चुरा लिया .
  • जिधर देखता हूँ दिखे बस तू ही तू, ओह मेरी प्रिय मेरे दिल में तू .
  • तुमसे कैसे कहें कितने अच्छे लगते हो तुम .
  • दिल के हर कोने में लिखा है बस तेरा नाम, आजा मुझसे मिलने सुबह हो या शाम .
  • बातें आज भी है और कल भी रहेंगी , मोहब्बतें दिल में आज भी है और कल भी रहेंगी .
  • प्यार का एहसास तुमसे सीखा, तुमको पाया जहान मिल गया है .
  • इतना भी न इतरा  के चलो कि दिल के टुकड़े भी न बिखरा के चलो .


Cute Romantic SMS Ideas for him and her

Cute Romantic Love SMS Ideas for him and her:

  • You are the spice of my life my love – today and forever.
  • Whether its daytime or a late night hour, you are my shining star.
  • I love the rainbow of my life, the colors of it are chosen by you my love.
  • I love your white teeth and your shining hair, I love you complete with nothing to spare!
  • Whether near or far, you remain my superstar.
  • I love the way you look at me, the way we talk. I wish my life could be all with you a long walk.

Pick Up Lines For Your Next Date

Here are some hot pick up lines for your next date. I hope you enjoy reading and have a great time with your partner!

Hot Pick Up Lines for Boys 

  • I love the way you wear smile on your face.. It kills..
  • I spent whole night thinking if we could meet today.
  • I like you for the way you are.
  • I wish I could find a girl who is as beautiful as you are.
  • I cannot tell you how crazy I am for you.
  • I love the color you wear on your nails.
  • I am mad for you.
  • Would you mind if I add to your company today evening in a cafe?
  • I really like you for the person you are.
  • I admire you for what you are.
  • Your looks are killing.