Nothing succeeds like success..

Nothing succeeds like success. I chose to write on this as I am reading an inspirational book these days; thanks to Delhi Public Library near office place. I would not reveal the name of the book at this stage, but yes definitely it is one of the best motivational books I have read so far. What’s even more entertaining is that the book is purely in Hindi (translation of foreign author); thus helping me brush up my mother tongue even better.

I have thought about specific goals for 2011 which will help me work on my routine to make my life more meaningful and focussed.

Lately I have realized that it is not only important to notice 99 negative things associated with an event, but equally important to make it compulsive to think positive with 1 positive association. Life is very small – for some it is matter of hours (new born mortality), few for 10 years and even if you live for 200 years, you still have to leave this materialistic world one day. There is no human on earth who shall not face death.

Thus it is important to understand what success actually means for us. For few people, success means being a billionaire, for few spending time with family, for few it is being able to spend a luxurious life and for few people it is being in the state of relaxation aka happiness.

For me, success has many dimensions. Success to me is :
Being able to keep a smile on one’s face even in the worst crisis
Being able to do some positive work daily
Being able to excel in both personal and professional life i.e. perfect work life balance
Being able to earn enough money to meet one’s needs
Being able to live life gracefully
Being able to connect with close friends
Being able to cook every Chapati with same size and quality 🙂

So in case you are depressed about not being able to get something, think again, do you actually deserve it?

Yes, we are only responsible for what we get or for our present situation. This statement initially appeared odd to me too, but after deep analysis, I am convinced that it is true.

So with these notes, I am ending this post and on a positive note : Find that one reason to be happy rather than 1000 reasons to remain unhappy.

Cheers!! 🙂

Last 12 months in a jiffy

My blog completes one year today and a lot of things have changed in these 12 months. My life has changed completely and I am a much mature person today. I have seen both highs and lows in these 12 months and have identified my true friends in the course.
This post is to specially thank my loved ones – my family and my friends without whose support I would not have been able to write this post.
So here I go in my poetic style :

Din beete, beet beet ke saal hue..
Sardi garmi barish, sab mein hum behaal hue..
Kuch log hassa ke gaye.. kuch ankhein kar lal gaye..
Unche neeche ke is khel mein, 12 mahine saal hue..
Jab unchayi ayi to mendak ake sang baith gaye..
Barish ke ate hi mendak uchal ke us par hue..
Is saare khel mein, gulabi neele laal hue..
Par ab nayi subah hai ayi..humne ab ye jana hai..
Kauwo ki is bheed mein.. hanso ko pehchana hai..
Moti jaisa ye jeevan pa kar hum dhanwan hue..
Din beete, beet beet ke saal hue..

Thoda complicated hai as usual.. :p

N hey Merry Xmas to all.. 🙂

Aj main upar

Aj main upar

Asmaan neeche..

Aj main aagey..

Zamana hai peeche..

In a fantastic mood today..

So post is just going to be very different from my usual style..

Hinglish on the rolls..!!

More fun to follow..

My blog completes 1 year tomorrow..

But a lot of things have changed in these 12 months..

But my true friends have stood by me through thick and thin..

Love you my friends..

And off course my family..

Winters are here again..

It is december and winters are here again..
Not that it is something new to me..
But my best gift is not with me anymore..
The gift dearest to every kid in this world..
Is nothing else, but dearest mom..
Mom knows you best and mom knows you all..
N you know it best, when you dont have her with you..
Those of you reading this, please hug your mom tight..
Because she is the best thing in this world..

The day of hope

Happiness and hope have knocked at the door..
The sun shone brighter.. birds chirped louder..
Kites are rising higher.. Breeze is tender..
Life is beautiful once again..
The fun lies in enjoying little things in life..
And leaving behind the black chapters..
A ray of hope is enough..
To wipe away the tears of darkness..
The light is back.. and I have to go on..
Stronger and on and on..

Hope within darkness

Sometimes we do not recognize people from within
Situations make us realize how cruel and insane can one be
Its painful to even express..
But hopes don’t die.
Stupids need to be kicked out of life..
If you can’t see through tears..
helplessness of a person so close to you..
You do not deserve anything in life..
May you perish as soon as possible..
May you go through the same pain.
May you be punished the way you did to others..
Because you certainly deserve it and God knows about it,
Amen..

Sometimes in life..

Sometimes in life we do not realize the importance of little things which come free. The loving smile of mother, warm hug of father, tips of grandmother, tricks of brother, fight with best friend; all come free! Take out time for your family, friends and even your hobby. Who knows, you may meet some one for last time today. Who knows it may be your last day today. Mind what you say, mind whom you say. Give respect, share love and stay in peace.

kash wo samjhe hote

kash wo samjhe hote

aur hum unko samjha pate

kash wo behke hote

aur hum unko sambhal pate

kash wo kehte hote

aur hum unko kuch keh pate

kash wo samjhe hote..

apna dil to tuta..

awaz bhi na apayi..

dil ki dhadkan khatam hui..

aur dur gayi meri parchayi..

kash wo samjhe hote..

kya hoti hai ye ruswayi..

kisko hum batlayein..

kya hoti hai ye tanhayi..

ek to dur gaye humse..

jahan mein hi humko bhul gaye..

duji wo chal di..

ki laut ke phir na apayi..

kash wo samjhe hote..

kya thokar humne hai khayi..

 

 

 

 

 

 

sad to note

sad to note that
someone whom you consider dear to
someone who says
you are dear to
vanishes away
like a smoke
at time when you need
support love affection
but that is not all
you get the blame
you get the curse
n you get bad words
at a time when your dearest gift
is away from u forever
not even sympathy..
you get only silence..
Thank God You are there
at least I can say something to you quietly
deep hurt I am from inside.
but pleasure to those who love to hurt
n pleasure to me who loves to forgive.
Amen.

some times it happens – poem

sometimes it happens..
you need your loved ones..
and they leave you alone..
sometimes it happens..
you beg for mercy..
and people are cruel to you..
sometimes it happens..
you want to make up..
but be your bad luck..
others want to break up..
sometimes it happens..
you tell the truth..
but in spite of your tears..
no one trusts you..
sometimes it happens..
you appear bold to others..
but deep inside..
you need a hug..
sometimes it happens..
you want to cry..
but you don’t get a shoulder..
you don’t get your mother’s lap..
sometimes it happens..
you want to share..
but your best friend..
is not there…
sometimes it happens..
you get surprised..
as those support you..
who never did before..
sometimes it happens..
life is so strange..
you feel the gap..
but you cant help..
sometimes it happens..
there is so much enthusiasm around..
but you want to cry..
sometimes it happens..
you want to talk..
you want to hear..
but there are no calls..
sometimes it happens..
you are so bad..
and good people..
become bad to you..
sometimes it happens..
you want to write..
but words don’t come easily..
sometimes it happens..